<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post767647078160855109..comments</id><updated>2009-01-26T19:03:25.666-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on ...méli-mélo...: Really knowing someone.</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/feeds/767647078160855109/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html'/><author><name>Flashtrigger</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01945806731450372205</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-5742810073391429549</id><published>2009-01-19T22:46:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-19T22:46:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>This post was awesome... I totally relate to it.  ...</title><content type='html'>This post was awesome... I totally relate to it.  I like to hear people's thoughts on psychology kinda stuff.  You should be pensive more often; you're good at it. lol&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I just started my blog and I'm really struggling with writing candidly about myself.  I want to be transparent, but I find that I am crippled by a fear of rejection.  Any advice is welcome.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/5742810073391429549'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/5742810073391429549'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1232433960000#c5742810073391429549' title=''/><author><name>Julie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15755287106639802360</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-1085334953350945902</id><published>2008-12-02T21:07:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T21:07:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Damn, BBC!  Learn to STFU when you don't understan...</title><content type='html'>Damn, BBC!  Learn to STFU when you don't understand what you're dealing with!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Granted, this one can handle your misogynistic snark ... but she shouldn't have to.  She's a beautiful human being, inside &lt;I&gt;even more&lt;/I&gt; than outside!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Ya gnarly old curmudgeon!  If you want to be a bastard to somebody, do it to me - I surely deserve it  :o)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/1085334953350945902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/1085334953350945902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1228280820000#c1085334953350945902' title=''/><author><name>Gadfly</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03101913882165730041</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-4005061040657385196</id><published>2008-12-02T03:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T03:52:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I find my secrets and dark side difficult to keep ...</title><content type='html'>I find my secrets and dark side difficult to keep hidden.  That's not to say I blab everything to everyone. That would be stupid. It's just that these hidden parts do manage to slip out in other ways- in the things I say and in my behaviour. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Sometimes keeping things in can come at too much of a cost. But although I like the idea of being fully open, sometimes the fallout of being "real" is worse than just keeping some things to yourself.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4005061040657385196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4005061040657385196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1228218720000#c4005061040657385196' title=''/><author><name>Nicole</name><uri>http://www.denhaagside.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-853558420986777750</id><published>2008-11-25T18:18:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T18:18:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>It is interesting...I always think of what people ...</title><content type='html'>It is interesting...I always think of what people hide and why they hide things. Like they are censoring my view or opinion of them. Creating themselves for me - not just me, but the rest of the world. People are crazy...you could trip out on human behavior for years and years I think. Just when you think you've got one behavior down, someone will throw you off kilter.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/853558420986777750'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/853558420986777750'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227665880000#c853558420986777750' title=''/><author><name>Sadie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13837907916471990519</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12984776997805128601'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-7985628471535615871</id><published>2008-11-25T17:50:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T17:50:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I for one believe in keeping it real.  I speak my ...</title><content type='html'>I for one believe in keeping it real.  I speak my mind and pst my life on my blog.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;People like honesty and HATE fake.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I love your blog.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/7985628471535615871'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/7985628471535615871'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227664200000#c7985628471535615871' title=''/><author><name>BedsideTalesMan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00696810368230236344</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-4758647443518623481</id><published>2008-11-24T18:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T18:57:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>It can be a stupid place to live, I agree; but wor...</title><content type='html'>It can be a stupid place to live, I agree; but work's good here, even as slow as it is.  Not so sure I agree on the self-esteem issues, though.  I don't censor comments, I just read them.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4758647443518623481'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4758647443518623481'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227581820000#c4758647443518623481' title=''/><author><name>Flashtrigger</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01945806731450372205</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07333328297354476638'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-7911910825031031558</id><published>2008-11-24T18:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T18:30:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah shit, I didn't notice that you did comment mode...</title><content type='html'>Ah shit, I didn't notice that you did comment moderation or I may not have left the first comment. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;People that do comment moderation have low self esteem.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/7911910825031031558'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/7911910825031031558'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227580200000#c7911910825031031558' title=''/><author><name>BBC</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-5344123595133362632</id><published>2008-11-24T18:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T18:28:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My son lives in Vegas, mostly because he is an idi...</title><content type='html'>My son lives in Vegas, mostly because he is an idiot. Vegas is okay to visit, been there many times, but a stupid place to live. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I don't have a hidden self, I put it all out there.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/5344123595133362632'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/5344123595133362632'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227580080000#c5344123595133362632' title=''/><author><name>BBC</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-4960781623940045861</id><published>2008-11-24T18:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T18:23:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>If it makes you feel any better, you can always as...</title><content type='html'>If it makes you feel any better, you can always ask me.  I don't mind if you're curious, and I don't tend to ask questions in return.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4960781623940045861'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/767647078160855109/comments/default/4960781623940045861'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html?showComment=1227579780000#c4960781623940045861' title=''/><author><name>Kris</name><uri>http://darkestelf.busmail.org</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://bruyeresauvage.blogspot.com/2008/11/really-knowing-someone.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23081230.post-767647078160855109' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23081230/posts/default/767647078160855109' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>